I'm noticing this trend and it goes down like this... You're trying to get out the door. Your kids aren't getting ready. You're gonna be late. Then, you lose it. Asking turns to... telling, then barking, and before you know it.... you're screaming at the top of your lungs from across the room. And then your children move. Or maybe not. Can you relate to this? There is an interesting phenomenon going on here called.... Our children can't hear us. Here's some steps to be more efficient & effective in your communication with your children. Ready to have your children jumping out the door in no time? Try this. 1. Take 3 deep breaths. 2. Get down at your child’s level. 3. Make eye contact to ensure you have her/his attention. 4. Put a gentle hand on his/her shoulder. 5. Say clearly, assertively, and calmly (positively!) what it is you are telling/asking. 6. Believe your child will listen to you. I know you're busy, but this is worth your time! Take those extra steps across the room. Get down at your child's level. Calmly and clearly speak to your little one. Believe your child will listen to you. And hopefully they do. Success stories or challenges to share? Head over to our Facebook page and let’s hear about it! You got this, Megan
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Katie
11/11/2015 07:49:10 pm
Such a great reminder!
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Mama Megan
Hi friends, I write from the heart to tell my life story, and the story of those in my neighborhood called life. Research shows that our children's emotional & mental health is contingent upon us parents being able to tell our life story, or "coherent narrative." This is my coherent narrative, my life story in the making, with some of what I love in life too. My goal is to share my life in a way that is real, uplifting & positive- sometimes serious, sometimes fun. In my practice, I inspire parents to empowerment through reclaiming our life stories and learning respectful discipline. My work is my offering to our children- our future. Wishing you all a happy family! Archives
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