Do you recognize this cycle? You say no. Your child whines, cries, or protests in some way. After some tears or a tantrum, you give in and end up saying yes anyhow. These instances can be a red-flag to "just say yes" from the get-go. Keep an eye out this week, when are you likely to say no, but then give in. See if it's something you could "just say yes" to from the beginning. Liberate yourself with a big old yes! This will conserve your energy and hopefully help increase cooperation for when parenting follow-through is truly needed. And this week, if you feel like you're giving in too much, we'll talk about some of the most effective ways to engage cooperation and follow through in next week's tool. This week, wishing you clarity in your mind and heart to avoid the cycle of Saying "no," ------> your children protesting -----> then you give in." If it feels right, liberate yourself with a big ol' YES from the get-go! Questions? Let us know over in the FB community. Have a wonderful week, Megan p.s. Looking for more simple tools to make life easier--- and to have more summer fun with your family? Join Summer Magic 2016! The FREE online event begins June 27th. Sign up here to join us! Photo of Madeline Roosevelt of Up Close with Madi and Single Moms Planet- Portland by Linzy Slusher Photography.
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Mama Megan
Hi friends, I write from the heart to tell my life story, and the story of those in my neighborhood called life. Research shows that our children's emotional & mental health is contingent upon us parents being able to tell our life story, or "coherent narrative." This is my coherent narrative, my life story in the making, with some of what I love in life too. My goal is to share my life in a way that is real, uplifting & positive- sometimes serious, sometimes fun. In my practice, I inspire parents to empowerment through reclaiming our life stories and learning respectful discipline. My work is my offering to our children- our future. Wishing you all a happy family! Archives
May 2021
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