I sat down with a bunch of kids
the other day, and they told me who's going to win the election, and when the world's going to end. Just joking. Kids are psychic, but not in that kind of way. Kids are psychic because they can read the emotions and thoughts of their parents. Since kids are wired to be connected to us - and they're literally growing their brains off of our brains- they are so closely attuned to us that science is officially saying.... Children are psychic in regard to their parents' emotions and thoughts. Crazy amazing! What does this mean for parents? If you are struggling as a parent, or with your child over a certain issue, take a breather. Recognize the current struggle you are having is designed to help you grow. The power of you is in holding what you DO want for your children ---rather than focusing on being worried, angry or frustrated with your kids (although that's often part of the process). I totally know: life gets stressful. Sometimes the negative takes over. If the negative is taking over, open up to what you need to have your needs met, and to feel good within. Then you can go forward with this formula (I highlighted each step in a free video series in my Facebook group here this week to celebrate my online program beginning tomorrow. If you're joining us~ welcome! To watch the videos, click here.) Here's a quick summary to maximize your children's psychic abilities, say goodbye to power struggles, and have more cooperation in your home: 1) Think about what you DO want your child to be doing, and tell them clearly and confidently. ie: Don't hit ----> Be gentle. Or hit the pillow. ie: Don't talk to me that way. -----> Talk respectfully, like "please mom can you help me ______." 2) Do a Connection Check. Do you feel connected to your best self, and the best in your children? If not, what can you do to get in that place? 3) Believe in them. Believe that whatever it is: they can do it! See it happening. Trust in them. (Parents call this magic precisely because children are psychic!) When you send the message of, "You can do it" to your children. They read the message, "I can do it." And very often, they do it! 4) Send the message of LOVE + RESPECT. What does your tone of voice sound like and your body language look like when you communicate from a place of love and respect for yourself, and love and respect for your children. Steps 1 to 4 may be straightforward, but it doesn't mean they're easy. Parenting is a practice, and an art form. When you get in that place and everything clicks with this new way of being, and parenting (and your needs are met as a parent) ---- your children will become more cooperative, and your home a more peaceful place. Promise. Why? Because children are psychic, and just vibing off of you. When you can harness the positive potential of your mind, they will follow you. Most importantly, be patience and compassionate with you, and your process. Because positive parenting takes time and practice. You got this. All the best, Megan
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Mama Megan
Hi friends, I write from the heart to tell my life story, and the story of those in my neighborhood called life. Research shows that our children's emotional & mental health is contingent upon us parents being able to tell our life story, or "coherent narrative." This is my coherent narrative, my life story in the making, with some of what I love in life too. My goal is to share my life in a way that is real, uplifting & positive- sometimes serious, sometimes fun. In my practice, I inspire parents to empowerment through reclaiming our life stories and learning respectful discipline. My work is my offering to our children- our future. Wishing you all a happy family! Archives
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